Are Melissa Gorga and her sister-in-law Teresa Giudice still at odds? Melissa Gorga and her sister-in-law, Teresa Giudice, have had an up and down relationship for years, but did Giudice really ban her brother's wife from visiting her behind bars? Melissa Gorga & Amber Marchese Enjoy A Night Out Ahead Of 'RHONJ' Season Seven For the last couple of weeks, rumors have swirled, claiming the Real Housewives of New Jersey co-stars are once again at odds, and that Teresa had purposefully failed to approve Gorga's visitation rights, but this morning, an insider set the record straight.