All signals that Kendra Wilkinson and Hank Baskett were potentially moving past their marriage troubles by hosting a joint barbecue for their friends and family are officially becoming confirmed as staged togetherness for the upcoming season of their reality show, Kendra On Top.

Kendra Wilkinson & Hank Baskett Staging Happy Moments For The Cameras?

"The barbecue was definitely staged for the show," a source told E! News. "Things are not good between them."

Adding to the couple's struggles, which have been going on since news broke of Baskett's affair with transsexual model Ava Sabrina London in June, the former NFL star is still actively trying to win his wife back, despite her feeling like she's done with the marriage.

Hank Baskett In Denial About Marriage Problems?

"Hank is an emotional guy and wants things to work out between them and still hopes that they will, he'd do anything to get her back," the source said.

But his efforts have fallen on deaf ears, because while Wilkinson is allowing him to still live in the couple's Calabasas home to film the show, she has every intention of still divorcing him once the cameras stop rolling.

"Kendra has already been meeting with divorce attorneys trying to get her ducks in a row so that she can proceed once the show ends," the source added. "Kendra and Hank have not been sleeping in the same bed, he's been sleeping on the couch quite a bit, anywhere other than with her."

And Wilkinson isn't only preparing herself for the divorce, but may even be looking to move on, the source added, as she keeps making jokes about finding someone new.

"Kendra is a really happy person and is in great spirits," the source said. "She is completely over Hank. Whenever she goes out, she'll check out the scene and joke around about looking for cute guys. She is doing really well, and very focused on her children and making sure they're comfortable."

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