While Erica Mena prepares to walk down the aisle in her lavish ceremony to rapper Bow Wow soon, one of his exes has spoken out on his engagement as well as what other rapper caused their split.

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Former video model Karrine Steffans spilled the tea on her former relationship with the CSI: Cyber actor (and many other well-known celebrities) in her new memoir Vindicated: Confessions Of A Video Vixen, 10 Years Later.

She spoke with Vlad TV earlier this month and shared her thoughts on Bow Wow’s upcoming wedding with Mena.

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“I don’t have a take on anything. I don’t have a take on anything. I just always wish that everyone is happy; if everyone is healthy and happy and doing something that promotes their health and their happiness and if their kids are happy, I’m all for it.”

As far as how she and Bow Wow started dating in the first place, she said that she and rapper Lil Wayne were often “in and out” with their romance. During one of their off moments, she met Bow Wow through a mutual friend. It only took a week for her to head to Atlanta with him. Interestingly enough, Bow Wow was a part of the Cash Money family, which Lil Wayne’s Young Money label falls under.

Steffans said that at the time Bow Wow and Lil Wayne were like “brothers” but Bow Wow failed to mention to Lil Wayne that he was dating Steffans. So she broke the news to him herself.

“He’s possessive. He’s very possessive with all of his women. I couldn’t wait to tell him. And I did.”

She added that she and Bow Wow no longer communicate. But it’s not because of the love triangle with Lil Wayne but with another rapper, Yung Berg.

“These people are very emotional. They’ll run around and say ‘That’s not my girl.’ Shad and I fell out because Berg and I were friends, and we still are… But Bow felt that Berg wasn’t ‘famous enough’ or ‘rich enough’ to be hanging out with. And I should only be hanging out with Bow and Wayne that’s it. I need to think more highly of myself and stop hanging out with people who aren’t rich, or aren’t famous.”